The Search
Remember those moments right after you heard that your baby might
have Down syndrome?
Maybe you cried. Maybe you snuggled your new baby. Maybe you thought about every possible future
for your child. Maybe you were relieved that is wasn’t more serious. Maybe you
were shocked.
Maybe you couldn’t do anything.
Undoubtedly, your mind raced through all the experiences you have
had with people with Down syndrome, that is, if you had ever had any.
I relied on the internet for lots and lots of photos of babies
with Down syndrome. Google, Instagram,
Wikipedia, blogs, organizations….so much out there – good and bad.
In talking with other moms, I know I am not alone in my searching….
“I
remember laying in the hospital searching
‘beautiful people with Down syndrome’ all night long (after she was
born).” Sierra
“It made
me worry more. I never should have. All I read was all negative.” Elsbeth
“I Googled
for pictures of babies with Down syndrome after I took the Maternit21 test.” Cristina
“I did once
and never did again, I just wanted to talk to other moms who went or was
pregnant with my situation. Never did much research it created too much
anxiety!” Jennifer
“I wanted
to see mostly pictures of kids and babies since I had seen adults before.” Lisa
“I didn’t
specifically seek out pictures but, when I came across them, they did add a lot
of light into a pretty dim time!” Shana
“I buried
my head in my phone for a good 3 weeks.”
Becky
“In the
community and even in my job working with folks with disabilities, I rarely saw
people people of color with Ds. My husband and I were curious. Even when
searching the internet, it was hard to find actual photos.” Chandra
“I
searched Pinterest and it actually made me feel better.” Kelly
In fact, when I posted the question to
my Facebook page asking whether parents looked at pictures and information
online after the diagnosis, the response was immediate and overwhelmingly clear-
the internet became a lifeline of support for parents to that new baby with
Down syndrome. Now this shouldn’t be a
surprise considering the access to information that exists today. But to hear time and time again that new
parents sitting in a hospital room are searching for this information at such a
delicate time? It makes us want to do
better. In fact, getting parents
accurate, reliable, current information is what drove us to begin Down Syndrome Diagnosis Network. We wanted parents to have a website to find
that would help them in that diagnosis stage and be specific to those needs.
THE Ad
Izzy's Photo: Target |
You may have seen the article about a new (adorable) face gracing
the Target
ad in December. Izzy Bradley,
daughter of our own DSDN President Heather, was selected as model for the ad after
a request for models was sent out via
Down Syndrome Associate of Minnesota. That DSAM message led to Izzy’s casting
call. Heather never envisioned a modeling career for Izzy or her other
daughters, but this seemed like a way to continue to support new and expectant
parents with a Down syndrome diagnosis.
“My husband and I thought having a model with Down syndrome would set a good example for other retailers,” Bradley said. “Ads are becoming more diverse in general, but we feel people with disabilities are still left out.”
People, Huffington Post, Yahoo news and ABC are among the media embracing and sharing this story. The response has been incredible and sweet Izzy has gone viral with nearly a million views around the world via many news outlets.
Heather believes, “A simple image can affect perceptions of what a Ds diagnosis means. These images should be commonplace in advertising.”
What if…..
What if this wasn’t such “news?”
What if people with DS and other disabilities weren’t something
that we had to seek out?
What if people of all shapes, sizes and forms were a part of our
mainstream media each day?
What if you opened your favorite retailer’s ad and saw someone
that looked like someone you love there in the pages?
Could that impact a family at the time of diagnosis?
We think so.
DSDN is proud to partner with Changing
the Face of Beauty to support the #15in2015 campaign!
Changing the Face of Beauty’s mission is: To encourage the
integration of individuals with disabilities into general advertising and the
media. "Changing the Face of Beauty" was founded by Steve English and
Katie Driscoll. This campaign grew from the love that they both have for
their family and for the community of children and young adults with disabilities.
They both felt it was important for everyone to be included in
advertising. They started their own campaign in the beginning of 2012 and
through the help of organizations, companies and media outlets recognizing
their efforts they have grown and are now speaking out for children and young
adults with different abilities around the world.
“We are ready for a more integrated media here in the United
States.....in the WORLD. So it is time to speak even louder. Let’s
remind retailers where we shop by calling them out. Let them know where
that 225 Billion dollars comes from. It comes from YOU and your family.
Show them your face. Show them what YOUR family looks like and post
a picture to social media calling them out” says Driscoll.
Join Us!
Camden's Photo: Jones Photography |
“Hey #GapKids #IMREADY for change. We want YOU to include
models with disabilities in 2015. We want YOU to be part of the #15in2015!”
#The Ellen DeGeneres Show #Changingthefaceofbeauty #DSDN
Be sure to LIKE the page of the retailer and use hashtags to link
to who you are calling out to the campaign! (Katie would love to see this reach a larger
audience and is hoping to catch Ellen’s eye ;) )
Since rolling out this idea yesterday, we've had many families submit pics and tag favorite stores. One mom, Meghan Roberson, submitted this photo of her son, Camden. She sent it because, "Camden is brilliant and beautiful. His little bit of extra gives him a bit of extra in everything. Changing the face of beauty is the perfect campaign for him to be a part of because he has changed his family for the better and we see the world in a more beautiful way." Follow more of the Roberson's journey with Camden here.
Check out these kids!
Ginger, Jude's mom wanted everyone to know that "Seeing children who look like my child in advertisements is an important form of representation. We want others to see Jude as a part of our society!"
Since rolling out this idea yesterday, we've had many families submit pics and tag favorite stores. One mom, Meghan Roberson, submitted this photo of her son, Camden. She sent it because, "Camden is brilliant and beautiful. His little bit of extra gives him a bit of extra in everything. Changing the face of beauty is the perfect campaign for him to be a part of because he has changed his family for the better and we see the world in a more beautiful way." Follow more of the Roberson's journey with Camden here.
Check out these kids!
Jude; captured by mom |
Ginger, Jude's mom wanted everyone to know that "Seeing children who look like my child in advertisements is an important form of representation. We want others to see Jude as a part of our society!"
Jadon's mom, Sheryl, also added to his caption and included, "Jadon's ready to share his charm and personality...think you can handle it..."
All of us want to see diversity represented. Will you join us?
All of us want to see diversity represented. Will you join us?
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Blogs – where can you
share?
Gap, Pottery Barn, Walmart, Kohls, Fisher Price, Pampers, Huggies….Who
will you call out today?
Let’s use this viral story to make a BIG difference for parents
and families with a new diagnosis.
Tell us below who YOU are going to call out!
Tell us below who YOU are going to call out!
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